Let's talk about a very controversial topic - Interracial Dating. People ask me usually how do I feel about it, am I for or against it? The answer is both. Yes, both, I'm for and against it. There are very valid reasons to be for and against it. I'll break it down for all y'all below.
As for when I'm for it, when you're just trying to try something different, there's nothing wrong with that! If you just happen to fall in love with someone of another race, so be it. There really isn't a big deal with it. Be warned though, you'll catch a whole lot of stares and a lot of people will even have some very disrespectful things to say to you. I say fuck em, let em talk the shit that they want to talk, do you.
Another instance that I'm for it is when it's only other races that you find you have the most in common with. For example, if you're a black male, yet you don't relate to black people as well as white people, I'm talking you enjoy doing the same things white women enjoy, you have similar interests with white women, not so much with black women. When you're in a situation like that, why wouldn't you date interacially? You're basically a white person on the inside, yet black on the outside!
Now for the ugly part, when I'm against it....
If you're dealing with white women because you're tired of black women "and their shit" or reverse the genders - you're tired of black men "and their bullshit" then yeah I'm against it and you're just using the shit as an excuse. Grow the fuck up and deal with your issues. If every black man or woman is the same to you, guess what the problem is? YOU! Yes, it's you!
YOU keep running back to the same type of people
YOU have something about you that attracts that element
YOU can go to white men/women, but guess what? If you don't fix the problem, you'll hook up with a white person that's exactly the same way! Then what?
Black women for example, love to say "I'm tired of black men - they're all the same" or "Black men ain't shit - they're all dogs!" but keep running back to the same type of black men, always the thugs, the players, the dope boys, what do you expect to happen? The definition of insanity is doing the exact same thing over and over again and expecting different results. Why not try someone else? Try a man who may not be the one all the other ladies want, but treats you well. How's that for a concept? LOL. If he isn't ugly, why not?
Black men love to say "black women always nagging!" but when you really look at it and examine shit, you'll notice (most of the time) what they mistake the "nagging" for is trying to make your sorry ass a better man and motivate your ass to get up get out and get somethin! But if you don't plan to be shit or have shit going for you - maybe your sorry ass should get yourself a white woman! These men here are some weak ass niggas! You can't deal with a woman trying to make you better? What do you want, a woman to let you sit around and not be shit and just say "it's okay baby!" right? HA! Not gonna happen! The type of men that say that are just plain weak-minded!
Then we have brothas and sistas who refuse to date another black person. You may not like what I'm about to say but I'm going to say it regardless - that's some serious deep-rooted self hate issues you have going on. Anyone that won't date their own race has some serious mental issues - the problem isn't your race nor is it the people you've dated, the problem is you! It's one thing to say you don't make race an issue when dating - that's perfectly fine! But to purposely exclude your own race is a definite sign of deep-rooted self-hate.
My other issue, is in porn. What is the deal with the interracial porn with a white man and a black woman? You'll notice in those films, the black woman has to give that white man all the head he wants, even after he just pulled the dick out of her asshole, she has to suck it, she has to either catch the cum in her mouth, on her face, or swallow it, and those white dudes 9 times out of 10 won't even think about eating her pussy.
Then when you look at stuff like the ghetto gaggers variety of porn, they do all types of disrespectful and inhumane things to these women. On that very site, I've seen white men do the following to black women
-gag them with their dicks until they puke (usually in a bowl)
-spit in their faces or in their mouths
-slap the shit out of them
-stick plungers up their pussies
-making them lick semen off of the floor
-making them swallow semen (sometimes mixed with saliva)
-making them lick their assholes
-passing gas while they're licking their asshole
-suck their dicks right after it was pulled out of her asshole
-lick semen off of a floor or carpet
-pouring a bowl of vomit over their faces or over their heads
-cracking open watermelons and letting the juices and fragments of the fruit fall all over their heads and faces
-making racist jokes, they do everything except say the N word, but their actions reveal their real feelings.
-cumming on the womens wedding rings (the married ones)
-Fucking women extremely hard anally or vaginally when they're obviously in pain and crying
-hooking a dildo to a CAKE MIXER and inserting it into a womans asshole and TURNING IT ON as she screams and cries
-forcing her to drink vomit (yes, they did it to sky black!)
-made her suck cum out of a used condom
-put a dog collar on her and make her bark like a dog
-wrapped her in caution tape and came all over her face
-Pissing on them, in their mouths, and making them drink it (they used to do that on another site until the FEDS ruled it OBSCENE and they didn't want the same thing that happened to Max Hardcore to happen to them!)
It's like black women are less than human in porn, but when a black man does a scene with a white woman, best believe he's going to have to eat some pussy! The white girls are going to get the favors and there are very few instances where white women are forced to do even a tenth of the list of things they do to black women. What gives?
Then the last gripe I have with interracial dating when people (male or female) reach a certain amount of success and suddenly they just simply can't be seen with a black woman! They usually have been with black women all their lives, had kids with her, had a life with her, married her, but then all of a sudden when they get some money, black women just aren't good enough for them anymore. What the hell is up with that? She was good enough to help you get started, help you take care of those kids, but when you blow up, you can't be seen with one? What kind of a slap in the face type of bullshit is that?
As far as me, I've never dated a white chick, never even wanted to have sex with one, why? I don't find them attractive, but hell I'm not even CRAZY about light skinned black women, so I'm definitely not crazy about white women. But apart from that, black women are the best, most beautiful women on the planet, why would I want to settle for less?